Surrogacy with Conceiveabilities
At ConceiveAbilities, we believe becoming a surrogate is one of the most courageous things someone can do.
Many on our team have been surrogates or became parents through a gestational surrogate, shaping our commitment as a trusted surrogacy agency. We’ve built a process, leveraging our many years of experience, carefully designed to protect, support, and celebrate you throughout your surrogacy journey. If you’re curious, ready, or somewhere in between – we are your people.
How to Become a Surrogate
Becoming a surrogate with ConceiveAbilities involves five clear steps, each fully supported by our team of surrogacy experts.
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Apply and Screening
Complete our simple application process and complete our screening process to confirm you’re ready to become a surrogate.
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Get Matched
Our experienced surrogacy agency matches you with compatible intended parents, ensuring your comfort and alignment throughout your journey.
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Prepare for IVF
Our experts guide you through the medication protocols and preparations for embryo transfer and pregnancy that are provided by your intended parents’ clinic.
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Carry the Pregnancy
Receive ongoing emotional, physical, and logistical support throughout your pregnancy from our dedicated match management team.
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Delivery and Beyond
Celebrate this incredible milestone, with continuing support and recognition throughout your “fourth trimester” for your generous act as a surrogate.
Who Qualifies to Be a Surrogate?
- Be between 21–42 years old
- Have had at least one healthy pregnancy and delivery
- Be a citizen or permanent resident of the United States
What else? Complete the application and schedule an introductory call with one of our experts. We’re thrilled to know you and learn about your interest in surrogacy and, in that introductory call, we’ll tackle any other topics that could impact your qualifications to be a surrogate.
Defining the Surrogate Mother
What is a surrogate? Gestational surrogates, often called “surrogate mothers,” carry pregnancies for intended parents but have no genetic link to the child. While some people use “surrogate mother” casually, others prefer “surrogate” or “surrogate pregnancy” to better reflect the surrogate’s role. We use varied terminology to educate clearly and respectfully about this important family-building process.
Surrogate Support Program
Our groundbreaking All-In Surrogate Care and Compensation Program provides unmatched support at every stage of your surrogacy journey. With our proprietary Matching Matters™ process, highest surrogate pay, comprehensive legal and medical coverage, and dedicated emotional support, we ensure you’re fully protected and empowered from application through postpartum recovery—the way surrogacy should be.
How Are Surrogates Matched?
Surrogates are matched with intended parents through our Matching Matters™ process based on shared values, expectations, and compatibility. We have dedicated staff just to understand your needs and expectations of who you see as your perfect match. You’ll have the opportunity to review the profile of any intended parent to decide whether you would like to meet them. And then, you’ll meet potential intended parents and choose who you feel most comfortable with. With a 97% first-time match success rate, we ensure meaningful relationships and smooth journeys from the start.
What Medications Do Surrogates Take?
You will work with your intended parents’ fertility clinic who will direct and guide your medication protocol to prepare your body for a successful transfer of the embryo and healthy pregnancy. These medications could include: birth control pills to regulate your cycle, Lupron to suppress ovulation, Estrogen to thicken your uterine lining, Progesterone and Medrol to support implantation, low-dose aspirin to improve blood flow, and antibiotics to prevent infection. While this may seem daunting, ConceiveAbilities manages a team of experts, with the fertility clinic at the center of this stage of your surrogacy journey, to provide guidance throughout the entire process, ensuring you’re comfortable and supported each step of the way.
How Much Do Surrogates Get Paid?
First-time surrogates earn up to $72,000 – well above the national average – as participants in ConceiveAbilities’ All-In Care and Compensation program. Our simple payment structure ensures you’re financially supported every step of the way, with clear, upfront payments and no hidden requirements.
Surrogacy Laws By State
Most states support compensated gestational surrogacy, with the exception of Nebraska and Louisiana. We offer detailed guidance on the legal landscape in every state to help you understand your rights and navigate the process with confidence.
Surrogacy Terms
Surrogacy is a complex journey with legal, medical, and psychological terms that can feel overwhelming at first. Our surrogacy glossary breaks it all down into clear, easy-to-understand language so you can know everything you need to throughout your surrogacy process.
What Surrogates Have to Say
Others have stood where you are now—curious, hopeful, and ready to help. Hear firsthand from surrogates who partnered with ConceiveAbilities to make parenthood possible for families across the country.
Being a surrogate mom has been an incredibly fulfilling journey, and I couldn’t have asked for a better team to work with than Conceiveabilities. If you’re considering surrogacy, I wholeheartedly recommend this agency for their professionalism, empathy, and dedication.- Kelly, Chicago Surrogate
I am a repeat surrogate with Conceiveabilities. I love working with this agency. They do such a wonderful job with their matching and their mental health team is fantastic! They’ve held my hand every step of the way and made me feel like I had a voice in how my journey progressed.- Christina, Colorado Surrogate
What an amazing experience my Conceiveabilities journey was! They made sure communication was always happening and the structure behind the support system really empowered me. Being able to relax knowing everything had been talked about ahead of time, even things I hadn’t considered, really was a blessing.- Kimmee, Minnesota Surrogate
Other Surrogacy Programs
Looking to learn more about the different paths to surrogacy? Explore additional programs designed to meet unique needs and circumstances for both surrogates and intended parents.
Refer a Surrogate
Know someone who would make an amazing surrogate? Refer her to ConceiveAbilities and earn rewards while helping another family grow.
Surrogacy Advocate Program
Our Surrogacy Advocate Program connects you with experienced surrogates who can answer your questions and share real insights. Get the support and perspective you need from someone who’s been there.
Surrogacy FAQs
How long does the surrogacy process take?
The surrogate process may take between 15 to 18 months on average; however, any individual situation could take more or less time.
If I am currently breastfeeding, can I apply to be a surrogate?
Yes, should you meet the basic requirements, we will work with you in completing our qualification process. To start the surrogacy process itself, you must have completely weaned and have had at least one menstrual cycle.
Can I apply to be a surrogate if I have an IUD in place for my birth control?
Yes, you can apply to be a surrogate if you have an IUD and, assuming you meet the basic requirements, we will work through the entire qualification process with you. To start the surrogacy process itself, you must have had your IUD removed and have had at least one menstrual cycle.
Does receiving government assistance disqualify me?
No. A surrogate must demonstrate financial stability in order to qualify for the surrogacy program, however, receiving government assistance is not on its own a disqualifying factor.
Ready to Begin Your Surrogacy Journey?
You’ve learned what it means to be a surrogate—now it’s your turn to make a difference. When you partner with ConceiveAbilities, you’re supported, celebrated, and empowered from day one. Join the women who are helping build families and changing lives in the most meaningful way.
Additional Resources
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