One of the most important aspects of a surrogacy match is the legal contract between the surrogate and her intended parents, known as the Gestational Carrier Agreement ("GCA"). It’s equally crucial for both parties; intended parents gain the security of established parental rights and a surrogate's rights and protections as a gestational carrier are addressed. We’ll explore some common concerns around the legal process - and how the rights of a surrogate are protected to help ensure that everyone is treated with respect.
First, it’s important to address the different types of surrogacy. While it’s rarely practiced these days – and in many states, it’s illegal – traditional surrogacy still exists. This means that the surrogate’s own egg is used, making her the child’s genetic mother. It invites a whole host of potential legal and other complications, which is why few intended parents choose this route. In the more common gestational surrogacy arrangement, the surrogate undergoes IVF and carries a child that is genetically related to the intended parents or donor(s). With a proper legal contract in place to protect all parties, gestational surrogacy arrangements are the safest route.
Absolutely. Surrogacy is a selfless act, but the surrogate mother is entitled to rights and protections as well. Some of these include the right to:
A surrogate should be well educated on the physical and medical implications of surrogacy to make the best decision for her. Medical consent is a major provision within a surrogacy contract; it means that both the intended parents and surrogate must agree to testing for medical conditions and communicable diseases. Before the match is confirmed, it’s also important to discuss reproductive choices to ensure you share the same feelings and beliefs. A woman’s right to choose legally extends to surrogates, however, the contract also obligates both parties to cooperate with each other.
No. While a surrogate has rights, the right to keep the child is not one of them. Once legal parenthood is established, the surrogate has no legal rights to the child and she cannot claim to be the legal mother. In the same vein, the contract protects the surrogate from any kind of legal or medical responsibility for the child. It’s important to remember that your surrogate’s motivation is not to keep the baby. ConceiveAbilities’ comprehensive screening, which includes a full mental health evaluation, clinical interview, and records review, helps ensure that a surrogate's goal is the same as the intended parents' goal – to help build the intended parent's family.
Surrogacy laws vary by state, and they can change quickly. First and foremost, the surrogate must reside in a state where commercial surrogacy is legal. If surrogacy is against a state’s law, the court can determine the contract void and, on rare occasions, participants may even face criminal charges. Working with a reputable agency like ConceiveAbilities and an attorney who is well versed in surrogacy law is the only way to mitigate these risks; having surrogacy contracts explained protects both the intended parents’ and the surrogate’s rights.
A pre-birth order is a parentage document that establishes the intended parent(s) as the legal parents of the baby. It expedites the post-birth legal process so that the baby can leave the hospital with the parents and the parents' names appear on the baby's birth certificate. Ideally, it’s finalized during the second or early third trimester.
Depending on the state and source of the eggs and sperm, additional steps may need to be taken after the birth. For example, a stepparent adoption may be required if an egg or sperm donor was used. In some states, an unmarried couple may need to complete a second-parent adoption. And in some states, a post-birth order must be completed instead.
Ultimately, recognizing a surrogate’s rights are imperative to a smooth surrogacy journey. We’re here to inform and support you every step of the way.
And, are you a woman who enjoyed a healthy and successful pregnancy? Do you have friends or family who have suffered from infertility or need assistance from someone else to build their family? Have you ever considered the role you could play in helping someone else build their family - as a surrogate? Talk to us to learn more about the possibilities to help someone else's dream come true.